The Real Reason Billie Eilish And Jesse Rutherford Split: A Deep Dive Into Their Lives Post-Breakup (Updated December 2025)
The whirlwind romance between pop superstar Billie Eilish and The Neighbourhood frontman Jesse Rutherford captivated the internet, but it came to an abrupt end in May 2023. Now, in December 2025, the dust has settled, and both artists have moved on to significant new chapters in their personal lives and careers, with Eilish finding a new rumored romance and Rutherford making a huge return to the music scene. The split, though short-lived, remains a fascinating moment in pop culture, especially given the controversy surrounding their initial age gap and Eilish's candid comments about the breakup months later. This article provides the most current update on their lives, clarifying the amicable split and detailing their exciting new projects as of late 2025.
The pair's seven-month relationship was one of the most public Eilish had ever engaged in, breaking her long-standing rule of keeping her love life private. Despite the intense scrutiny and the 11-year age difference, the couple insisted on a genuine connection, famously appearing together at the LACMA Art+Film Gala in matching Gucci blankets. Their current status is one of mutual respect and friendship, allowing both to thrive in their respective creative fields.
Jesse Rutherford: The Complete Biography and Profile
Jesse James Rutherford, known mononymously as Jesse, is a multi-talented American singer, songwriter, and former actor. Best known as the co-founder and lead vocalist of the alternative rock band The Neighbourhood, his career spans over two decades, starting long before his high-profile relationship with Billie Eilish.
- Full Name: Jesse James Rutherford
- Born: August 21, 1991
- Birthplace: Newbury Park, California, U.S.
- Primary Role: Lead vocalist of The Neighbourhood (The NBHD)
- Early Career: Started as a child actor, appearing in commercials and small film roles, including the 2002 film Life or Something Like It starring Angelina Jolie. He also had a role in the film Ted Bundy.
- The Neighbourhood Formation: Co-founded the band in 2011. Their breakthrough hit, "Sweater Weather," became a global sensation and a staple of the alternative music scene.
- Solo Career Moniker: He also releases music under the solo moniker Jesse®.
- Solo Albums: He has released several solo projects, including the mixtape *Truth Hurts, Truth Heals* (2011-2013), the studio album *&* (2017), *Blame* (2019), and his latest project, *Wanted?* (2025).
- Relationship History: Before Eilish, he was in a long-term relationship with model and entrepreneur Devon Lee Carlson.
The Short-Lived Romance: From Halloween to the Breakup
The relationship between Billie Eilish and Jesse Rutherford was brief but highly documented, sparking intense public debate almost immediately due to the age gap. The "Happier Than Ever" singer was 20, and the "Sweater Weather" artist was 31 when they began dating.
The Initial Controversy and Public Debut
Rumors of the romance first surfaced in October 2022 when the two were spotted holding hands and sharing a kiss in Los Angeles. The relationship was confirmed shortly after, but it was their public debut at the LACMA Art+Film Gala that cemented their status as a couple. They arrived draped in a massive, quilted Gucci blanket, immediately drawing attention and criticism. For Halloween, they leaned into the age-gap controversy with ironic costumes: Billie dressed as a baby, and Jesse as an old man, a move that polarized fans and critics alike.
An Amicable Split and Eilish’s Candid Revelation
By May 2023, after only seven months, representatives for the artists confirmed the split. The statement was clear: the pair had broken up amicably and remained "very good friends." Crucially, the reps shut down any rumors of infidelity, asserting that all cheating speculation was "false."
Billie Eilish later provided more insight into the separation, telling fans in a Q&A that they were still "my homie forever" and that the breakup was ultimately a positive, self-affirming decision. She famously stated that she "woke up and came to my senses," suggesting a personal realization or change in perspective led to the end of the romance, rather than any external drama. This confirmed that the split was driven by Eilish's own growth and desire for a different life path.
Life After the Split: New Romances and Major Career Moves in 2025
The most current updates, as of December 2025, show both Billie and Jesse focusing heavily on their careers while exploring new romantic connections, proving that their amicable breakup allowed both artists to flourish.
Billie Eilish's Rumored New Flame: Nat Wolff
Billie Eilish has been linked to actor and musician Nat Wolff throughout 2025, signaling a new chapter in her dating life. The rumors gained significant traction in June 2025 when the pair were photographed kissing on a balcony in Venice, Italy, while enjoying a romantic getaway. Nat Wolff, known for his roles in films like *The Fault in Our Stars*, is a long-time friend of Eilish's, and the public displays of affection suggested their relationship had evolved beyond friendship.
Sources close to the couple have suggested that the relationship is serious, with speculation that Eilish and Wolff are looking to take things "long term." This new romance is a major update for the "Ocean Eyes" singer, who continues to maintain a high level of privacy despite the public interest. Her focus remains on her music, but her connection with Wolff is the most talked-about development in her personal life since the split from Rutherford.
Jesse Rutherford and The Neighbourhood's Big Comeback
While Billie is exploring a new relationship, Jesse Rutherford has been pouring his energy into his music, both with his band and as a solo artist. The year 2025 has been a significant period for The Neighbourhood fans. The band, which had been relatively quiet, posted a story in August 2025 indicating their return to creating and releasing new music.
This return was quickly followed by the release of three new singles in October 2025, marking the end of their hiatus and generating massive buzz across the alt-pop community. Furthermore, Rutherford has been active with his solo project, Jesse®, announcing a new album and a solo tour to support the release of his latest solo work, *Wanted?* (2025). This intense creative output confirms that Rutherford is laser-focused on his artistic endeavors, successfully navigating his post-breakup life by returning to his roots and reconnecting with his dedicated fanbase. The renewed activity from The Neighbourhood and his solo work ensures that his influence on the alternative music landscape remains strong, keeping him in the spotlight for his professional achievements.
The Final Word: Friendship and Forward Momentum
The story of Billie Eilish and Jesse Rutherford is not one of a messy Hollywood breakdown, but of two artists who briefly shared a significant moment before moving on to new, equally compelling chapters. Their relationship, though short, was a major stepping stone for Eilish, who became more open about her personal life. The fact that they remain "homies forever" speaks to the maturity of their decision to split.
As 2025 concludes, Billie Eilish is enjoying a rumored long-term connection with Nat Wolff, while Jesse Rutherford is celebrating a major professional resurgence with The Neighbourhood's comeback and his solo music. Both are thriving, proving that sometimes, a conscious uncoupling is the best catalyst for personal and professional success.
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