The Unseen Kingdom: 5 Surprising Facts About Kevin James’s Family Life In 2025
Kevin James & Steffiana de la Cruz: A Complete Family Profile
Kevin James, born Kevin George Knipfing, has maintained a remarkably stable personal life throughout his decades-long career. His marriage to actress and model Steffiana de la Cruz is one of the longest-lasting in Hollywood, and their four children are a central focus of their lives.
Kevin James Biography & Profile
- Full Name: Kevin George Knipfing
- Date of Birth: April 26, 1965
- Age (Dec 2025): 60
- Birthplace: Mineola, New York, U.S.
- Career Start: Stand-up comedy on the Long Island scene (late 1980s)
- Major Roles: Doug Heffernan (*The King of Queens*), Paul Blart (*Paul Blart: Mall Cop*), Larry Valentine (*I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry*)
- Recent Projects (2025): "Eat the Frog" Stand-up Tour, Comedy Special *Kevin James: Irregardless* (Amazon Prime), and the upcoming film *Guns Up*
- Parents: Joseph Valentine Knipfing Jr. and Janet Knipfing
- Siblings: Gary Valentine (older brother, comedian/actor) and Leslie Knipfing (sister)
Steffiana de la Cruz Biography & Profile
- Full Name: Stephanie Anna Marie Zantua
- Date of Birth: August 28, 1974
- Age (Dec 2025): 51
- Background: Filipino-American actress and former model
- Relationship Timeline: Met Kevin James on a blind date in 2001; married on June 19, 2004
- Joint Filmography: She has appeared alongside James in several films, including *Paul Blart: Mall Cop*, *Paul Blart: Mall Cop 2*, *Zookeeper*, and *Stealing Harvard*.
The Four James Children (Ages as of Dec 2025)
- Sienna-Marie James: The eldest daughter, approximately 20 years old, born September 30, 2005.
- Shea Joelle James: The second daughter, approximately 18 years old, born June 14, 2007. Her middle name is a tribute to the New York Mets’ former home, Shea Stadium.
- Kannon Valentine James: The only son, approximately 15 years old, born April 24, 2010.
- Sistine Sabella James: The youngest daughter, approximately 11 years old, born March 2014.
The 20-Year Marriage: How Kevin James and Steffiana de la Cruz Keep It Private
Kevin James and Steffiana de la Cruz celebrated over two decades of marriage in 2024, a significant milestone in the entertainment industry. Their longevity is largely attributed to their shared values and their decision to keep their family life intentionally out of the relentless Hollywood spotlight.
The couple first met on a blind date in 2001, a meeting that quickly blossomed into a serious relationship. They were married in a traditional Catholic ceremony in California, surrounded by family and close friends, including James’s long-time friend and co-star, Ray Romano.
What sets their relationship apart is their professional collaboration. Steffiana, a Filipino-American actress and former model, has frequently taken on minor roles in her husband’s major projects, a testament to their close working and personal bond. This includes appearances in *Paul Blart: Mall Cop*, where she played a DJ, and in *Zookeeper*. This shared professional space allows them to spend time together even while Kevin is working on set, reinforcing their family-first approach.
James often jokes about the realities of their marriage and parenting in his stand-up, most recently in his 2024 special *Irregardless*. However, he is fiercely protective of his wife and children, rarely sharing photos of them on social media and ensuring the kids grow up away from the intense media scrutiny that often plagues celebrity families.
The Knipfing Brothers: A Comedy Dynasty and Unbreakable Bond
One of the most significant entities in Kevin James’s life is his older brother, Gary Valentine. The two share not only a family bond but also a deep professional history that has shaped both of their careers.
Gary Valentine, born Gary Joseph Knipfing, is a successful comedian and actor in his own right. Their connection is perhaps most famous for their work together on *The King of Queens*, where Gary played Doug Heffernan’s cousin, Danny Heffernan. This professional collaboration continued in many of Kevin’s films, including *Paul Blart: Mall Cop* and *Grown Ups*, where Gary often plays a supporting comedic role.
The brothers’ shared German and Italian heritage and Long Island upbringing heavily influence their comedic styles, which often revolve around relatable, family-friendly humor. The presence of his brother in his professional life provides Kevin James with a constant, grounding force. Gary's involvement in Kevin's projects is a clear example of the star using his platform to support his family, a theme that resonates deeply with his public persona.
The Next Generation: Where Are Kevin James’s Children Now?
With four children ranging from their early teens to their early twenties, the James household is in a constant state of change. Kevin James is now navigating the challenges of parenting adult children, a topic he has explored in his recent comedy.
His eldest daughter, Sienna-Marie James, is now approximately 20 and has largely remained out of the public eye, focusing on her own path away from Hollywood. Shea Joelle James, approximately 18, and Kannon Valentine James, approximately 15, are also growing up with a focus on privacy. However, James has occasionally mentioned his children's talents, noting that his son, Kannon, is a talented piano player, hinting at a creative streak in the younger generation.
The actor's recent stand-up special, *Irregardless*, which premiered in 2024, is heavily centered on the experience of raising his four kids and the humorous struggles of modern fatherhood. This willingness to share the universal aspects of parenting while protecting their individual privacy is a hallmark of his approach. The family's commitment to their Catholic faith is also a known entity, providing a foundation for their values and guiding their approach to life outside the limelight.
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